Relationships

Don’t Have Children (Just Because the World Tells You To)
From one mother who loves her kids, but imagines another life

Identity Crisis: How Do you Deal With Negative Feelings in the Movement?
Turning despair, rage, and jealousy into something productive

Mother as Martyr
Mothers are often both martyrs and assassins in the eyes of female children

What's the Difference Between BDSM and Abuse?
The patterns are remarkably similar, but BDSM advocates claim "consent" makes it all okay

Universal Basic Income Might Save Women's Lives
How UBI could help victims of domestic violence in times of crisis

I Got To Leave. I Was One of the Lucky Ones
The drip-drip-drip of coercive control is a torture that is difficult to describe to someone who doesn’t already understand.

The Rise of the "Tradwives", and Choice Under Patriarchy
What does choosing traditional gender roles really mean for women?

Women Are Being Trained by Porn to Like Degrading, Violent, Male-centered Sex
Don't be fooled - porn sex doesn't benefit women.

My Sex-Positive Memoirs
How I learned to stop drinking Kool-Aid and start judging

Why Being Bisexual Matters
There are serious consequences to biphobia, especially for women

Coming Out to My Boyfriend’s Family on Thanksgiving
Being an invisible bisexual in a straight-passing relationship

What’s In A (Woman’s) Name?
It’s time to stop letting men hold the power of language, history, and identity.